Does Your Attitude Contradict Your Mindset? Or Vice Versa?


Does Your Attitude Contradict Your Mindset? Or Vice Versa?

Trigger Question #65

Some of us use mindset and attitude as synonyms. But if we think about it, then maybe we shouldn't.

Mindset is a way of thinking. Attitude is a way of being.

Your habitual way of being (your attitude) can influence your way of thinking (your mindset). For example, if you adopted a forceful position (attitude) on a topic, then you will more easily see things that support your thinking and find facts that bolster your mindset. Irrespective of reality.

Your habitual way of thinking (your mindset) can influence your way of being (your attitude). For example, your style of thinking can create tunnel vision, or blinders, or rose-tinted glasses, which can trick you into adopting a position, a posture, a style, a way of being, an attitude. Irrespective of reality.

You could now think, "Which is the chicken and which is the egg?" Don't. It does not matter which comes first, mindset or attitude. What matters is whether you question and monitor both your way of being and your way of thinking.

Because when you do, you will find moments when your re-examined attitude contradicts your habitual mindset. Or moments when your reconsidered mindset contradicts your habitual attitude.

Believe it or not, those are your truly consequential moments.

Welcome to my side of the nonsense divide.

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Quote of the Moment:

“When I was young, they said my attitude stank. I took it as a compliment. Now they admire my mindset. Set mind? I’m not sure it’s a compliment.” The Chief Nonsense Officer.

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